Yesterday we talked about “no excuses.” Life happens to all of us. It is simply a fact. None of us have the perfect life where everything is always wonderful.
It isn’t what happens to us in our life that counts; it is how we respond to it. Life is 10 percent what happens to us and 90% our response to it. It isn’t even totally what happens to us but the way we interpret the events. Sometimes as we look back on a situation, what we thought and felt at the time was more the story we told ourselves than what actually happened. Food for thought – right?
Every time you go to a web page, you are seeking something. You were seeking something by coming to my blog right now. Have you found it yet? The good news is that as long as you are at least seeking, you have the potential of finding. When you give up seeking and give up on life, it gives up on you too. Keep reading and seeking and you will find. If you did a bit deeper into my blog, you may find exactly what you are searching for to enhance your life. If you want to talk to me personally, email me at ResultsForLife@gmail.com. I am here to help.
In this economy the help so many seem to be seeking is making more money. Money helps, absolutely, but it is more than money. It is about your life. Money is not the end-all-be-all; it is what that money brings to you and your life that really matters. Time freedom. Control of your future. Time to not only provide for yourself and your future but also for the future of those you care about. Time to truly enjoy your life.
What is holding you back from taking the next step to make your dreams come true? The question is not IF you want a better life, but HOW BADLY do you want to improve your life?
Nothing new and good happens by staying exactly where you are and have been. Improving your life requires stepping out of your comfort zone and stretching yourself.
Are you ready for success? Jim Rohn reminds us that “For things to change, WE must change.” For the circumstances in your life to get better, YOU must get better.
Successful people in any and all aspects of life take action. Successful people do not make excuses or blame others or throw up their hands and give up. They find another way to make it happen for themselves.
There is a quote I have on my desk which I love and I’ll paraphrase due to one word in the actual quote which may not be appropriate for all audiences. All things come to the one who waits, providing he prays and works very hard while he waits.
It is your future. It is your choice.
Showing posts with label no excuses. Show all posts
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Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Tuesday, August 11, 2009
No excuses
There are so many people who inspire me in my life. One of the most significant in my life was Earl McCray, my grade school and high school music teacher. He believed in me when I did not know how to believe in myself.
Just a bit of background which puts that in perspective. I say this from the heart in order to inspire others to know they can not only survive difficult situations but actually thrive.
Picture me as a little 3 year old girl with long dark brown finger curls spiraling down my back. I am standing in the Kansas sunshine out by the barn on the farm with my daddy. He looks down at me and says, you’re just a d_____ girl. I didn’t want you. I wanted a boy who would be worth something.” You can imagine the shock and hurt.
I ran to my mother in tears. She confirmed that they were both disappointed and that they had wanted another boy.
Something inside me, maybe my stubborn pride, made a decision that day. I decided to make them proud of me. Instead of rebelling, I became the ideal obedient child. I n the days and years to follow, I studied the piano; I read every book within my grasp. I learned the c melody saxophone, then the e flat alto saxophone and then the b flat clarinet. I sang in all of the small groups and choirs. I participated in all of the school plays. In order to participate in any extra activities after school, I stayed in town with an unmarried aunt. Actually, staying with Aunt Mara was fun. I enjoyed the experience very much.
My music offered me not only creative expression but also an opportunity to be around people who valued me. Earl McCray constantly encouraged me to challenge myself. His most significant encouragement came at the time of my high school graduation. Earl told me to apply for scholarships to the University of Kansas. I did.
Thanks to Earl and Dale Lemon, my high school principal, I received that coveted scholarship. Imagine my pride as I brought home the paperwork and announced that I would be attending the University of Kansas. Since I was only 17, I needed my parent’s signature. My father refused to sign declaring that I was a d____ girl and did not deserve a college education. So much for a scholarship to KU.
By now, I was even more determined to earn a college degree. Long story short, I found a ride to Kansas State College of Pittsburg and ran away from home.
No money, no job and no place to live but an iron will determination to succeed. Was it easy? Absolutely not. I somehow managed to get a place to live in the dorm, old Willard Hall. I found a job at the college. I lived on grilled cheese sandwiches and extra pickles at the College Inn Café. Yes, I know that was horrible nutrition but it was the cheapest item on the menu.
It was during my time at Pittsburg State College that I met my second mentor, Dr. Bill Reilly. Doc, as we affection ally called him, was not only a law professor but an absolutely brilliant man. I had the privilege of being his student secretary for 2 years. His vocabulary was so extensive that I literally sat with the dictionary to transcribe his dictation. He was such an inspiration in so many ways. In fact, we remained in touch until 3 years ago when he passed away.
My mentors, my stubborn determination and the grace of God contributed to my graduation from college in 3 years with a double major, double minor, and a Superior Student designation. No, my parents did not attend my high school or college graduation; however, Doc Reilly gave me a graduation party with all of my favorite professors and special friends. He even gave me long stem roses from his personal rose garden.
Roadblocks, challenges and disappointment can either crush us or make us stronger. I chose to grow and achieve despite the circumstances. Hmmmm, maybe my strength actually grew from the challenges even more than it would have with an easier path.
I’m grateful for everything in my past. Yes, grateful. It shaped me to become the strong leader and successful entrepreneur which I am today.
Just a bit of background which puts that in perspective. I say this from the heart in order to inspire others to know they can not only survive difficult situations but actually thrive.
Picture me as a little 3 year old girl with long dark brown finger curls spiraling down my back. I am standing in the Kansas sunshine out by the barn on the farm with my daddy. He looks down at me and says, you’re just a d_____ girl. I didn’t want you. I wanted a boy who would be worth something.” You can imagine the shock and hurt.
I ran to my mother in tears. She confirmed that they were both disappointed and that they had wanted another boy.
Something inside me, maybe my stubborn pride, made a decision that day. I decided to make them proud of me. Instead of rebelling, I became the ideal obedient child. I n the days and years to follow, I studied the piano; I read every book within my grasp. I learned the c melody saxophone, then the e flat alto saxophone and then the b flat clarinet. I sang in all of the small groups and choirs. I participated in all of the school plays. In order to participate in any extra activities after school, I stayed in town with an unmarried aunt. Actually, staying with Aunt Mara was fun. I enjoyed the experience very much.
My music offered me not only creative expression but also an opportunity to be around people who valued me. Earl McCray constantly encouraged me to challenge myself. His most significant encouragement came at the time of my high school graduation. Earl told me to apply for scholarships to the University of Kansas. I did.
Thanks to Earl and Dale Lemon, my high school principal, I received that coveted scholarship. Imagine my pride as I brought home the paperwork and announced that I would be attending the University of Kansas. Since I was only 17, I needed my parent’s signature. My father refused to sign declaring that I was a d____ girl and did not deserve a college education. So much for a scholarship to KU.
By now, I was even more determined to earn a college degree. Long story short, I found a ride to Kansas State College of Pittsburg and ran away from home.
No money, no job and no place to live but an iron will determination to succeed. Was it easy? Absolutely not. I somehow managed to get a place to live in the dorm, old Willard Hall. I found a job at the college. I lived on grilled cheese sandwiches and extra pickles at the College Inn Café. Yes, I know that was horrible nutrition but it was the cheapest item on the menu.
It was during my time at Pittsburg State College that I met my second mentor, Dr. Bill Reilly. Doc, as we affection ally called him, was not only a law professor but an absolutely brilliant man. I had the privilege of being his student secretary for 2 years. His vocabulary was so extensive that I literally sat with the dictionary to transcribe his dictation. He was such an inspiration in so many ways. In fact, we remained in touch until 3 years ago when he passed away.
My mentors, my stubborn determination and the grace of God contributed to my graduation from college in 3 years with a double major, double minor, and a Superior Student designation. No, my parents did not attend my high school or college graduation; however, Doc Reilly gave me a graduation party with all of my favorite professors and special friends. He even gave me long stem roses from his personal rose garden.
Roadblocks, challenges and disappointment can either crush us or make us stronger. I chose to grow and achieve despite the circumstances. Hmmmm, maybe my strength actually grew from the challenges even more than it would have with an easier path.
I’m grateful for everything in my past. Yes, grateful. It shaped me to become the strong leader and successful entrepreneur which I am today.
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